Essays on character, fear, and the stories we tell ourselves.

self-love

WTF is self-love?

Most people are crueller to themselves than they would ever be to the rudest of strangers. They have been doing it so long they no longer hear it.

philosophy

The one you should have listened to

When a hundred people agree about something and one person doesn't, the one person is usually wrong. Until they aren't, and the cost of having dismissed them has already been paid.

pain

How to stop the pain

The pain you have been outrunning has not moved. It is exactly where you left it, waiting to be heard.

philosophy

Stop chasing purpose

The search for purpose is a trap most people walk into willingly. It ends only when they notice the search is the problem.

philosophy

How we choose the slaughterhouse

You think you think for yourself. You don't. You follow, repeat, defend, and never notice the fence.

philosophy

I'm sorry. I meant well.

The people who hurt you most rarely thought of themselves as the people hurting you.